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Another re-blog because of its Remembrance Sunday


We had to put on our heating last night, sighed Clammie.

We were no longer sitting outside Costamuchamoulah must-seen

cafe.  We had to go inside.

The mornings are now distinctly autumnal, I ventured. Have you been


Not yet.  Soon it will be Harvest Festival, I suppose.

Clammie looked down at her nails.  She didn’t want them to be stained

indelibly with berry juice. The Lady Macbeth  look wasn’t one that she

sought to emulate.

Do you remember that Autumn when we visited that lovely little church in

The New Forest? I asked her.  The window ledges had been decorated with

pumpkins and the sunlight made them appear aflame, like lanterns.

What church?  Do you mean All Saints, Minstead?

Yeah, that’s right.  Do you recall how, just as we were about to leave, I

saw that brass plaque on the wall, which commemorated the death of

Lieutenant Smeathman? Its date was the very same one on which we were

visiting the church.  The twenty fourth of October, I believe it was.

Oh, that was spooky!  I remember.  Didn’t you write a poem about it, in

some sort of weird verse form?

I did, but, you know, I was looking for it the other day and I decided to

investigate the life of Smeathman.  I discovered that he was called Julian

Missenden and his brother, Cecil, had been killed on the same day, but in

a different location.  It was a double tragedy.

Where did you find that out?

It was on a site for Family Historians called The Long, Long Trail. A woman

called Carole Standeven had posted the information that Cecil and Julian

were both killed on the 24th October.  Julian had been married in All Saints

on the 1st. They were with the 1st Leicestershire Regiment Battalion and

the 55th Field Co. RE, respectively.

Their poor parents!  And Julian’s poor bride!

Yes.  She was called Gladys Monia Browne. Their father was a

Captain Lovel Smeathman MC.  Julian is commemorated on the Menin

Gate, but he has no known grave.

I wonder what happened to his wife?...Do you still have

a copy of your poem?

Yes, but I may want to revisit it, now that I have more information.

Maybe that will be a different poem.  Remind me what you wrote.

Lychgate of Minstead Church

(Hants Library and Info Service photograph)

ALL SAINTS’, MINSTEAD (October, 24th 1996)

Wedded for three weeks, returning to ask the Almighty the reason

why she was widowed, she leant on her father’s support; re-traced her steps.

Crossing the deeply eroded threshold, they entered the chancel.  Why?

One of the bells was inscribed with the motto: In God is my hope.  Now

pillars were tilting; her world was collapsing; the lilies were waxen.

Fires were extinguished in damp parlour pews and the carillons silenced.

Heartrending, harrowing scenes had been witnessed by grave ancient yews,

their bleeding of scarlet arils on the grass, an autumnal stigmata.

Nineteen were lost from this parish alone and their bows, as the Bible,

open at Isaiah said, were completely destroyed and their seed dashed.

He is not here; he is risen: the stained panel seemed to admonish.

Pumpkins, ovoid on the sills, were a tumescent harvest of blessing,

mocking her empty, unburgeoning belly.  She steadied herself in

front of the font which was prospectless, void.  But today there are christening

flowers in abundance and someone has polished a plaque with his name, so

I am aware of their story; remember Lietenant J. Smeathman:

bridegroom and soldier, who did not return from the war, but whose spirit

tinctures this sacrosanct space and who’s present, though absent in body.

Eighty two years to the day, anniversary not to be feted,

fated to visit this altar of sacrifice, I also falter.

Under the lych gate I notice a coffin could rest on its grooved plinth.

Maybe his bride at her end made a journey again through the archway,

pall­­bearers trampling confetti- the mulch from an earlier service.

Fastening the gate, contemplating the path, I leave my footprints there.











Since writing this poem I have discovered something even more tragic.

Julian Missenden Smeathman’s brother, Cecil, died on the very same

day.  Their father had gained the MC.

There is a memorial window to both brothers in St Mary’s Hemel


Also in stained glass is the quotation: Lovely and pleasant in their lives

and in death they were not divided.